Fighting on the Stairs

The Maze and Magic of Online Dating

Join us in this insightful episode of "Fighting on the Stairs" as we delve into the world of online dating, exploring its peculiarities, its pitfalls, and its many potential rewards. Through a mix of humor and insightful conversations, we dissect the dating dynamics created by apps like Tinder and Bumble, expose the self-imposed pressures and internal conflicts, unravel the mysteries of setting up appealing profiles, and uncover the facade of skin-deep attractions.

We candidly share personal dating journeys, from the sparking of a simple 'hi' to the tipping point of deactivating our profiles for one another. We shed light on the quest for endless options, the paradox of missing out, and the societal perceptions of relationships in the modern digital dating landscape.

We critique the addiction, the superficiality, and the drawbacks of online platforms - yet also appreciate their advantages. Arguing for authentic and respectful interactions, we underscore the significance of attitudinal changes that allow for meaningful relationships.

We celebrate the bounty of successful relationships that spring from the online dating world and encourage you to embark on your own adventure of swipes and matches. Complete with anecdotes, stories, and entertaining musical breaks, this episode presents a refreshing, realistic, and – at times surprising – take on online dating. Whether you're making your first dip into the digital dating pool or simply intrigued by this modern avenue for love, you're sure to find value in our lively dialogue and shared experiences.

A Deep-Dive Into Triangular Theory of Love and Relationships

In this enlightening episode, we unpack love and relationships through the lens of Sternberg's Triangular Theory. From maintaining the balance between intimacy, passion, and commitment to understanding how these elements shape relationship dynamics, the conversation provides a comprehensive insight into love's many forms.

We touch upon challenging topics like unrequited love, honesty, and the distinction between friendship and emotional dependency. We discuss how understanding and articulating our desires can help improve the quality of our relationships.

Highlighting the nuances of long-term commitments, polyamorous, asexual, and aromantic relationships, we illustrate that different relationship styles require varying emphases on the key elements of the love triangle.

Moving on to personal reflections, the conversation explores how life events like child birth or the early parenting phase can shift the love dynamic. We emphasize the triangle as a practical tool for reflection when relationships hit rocky patches.

From Friendships to romantic relationships shaped by work as flight attendants, this episode traverses various relationship scenarios illustrating different combinations of intimacy, passion, and commitment.

Lastly, reflecting on the ever-evolving world of online dating, this episode underscores the importance of articulating needs and intentions. This conversation not only unravels the complexities of relationships but also prepares listeners for their romantic journey.

The Story of Our Engagement: Love in the Swiss Skies

Discover the delightful story of our romantic journey towards marriage in episode 15 of 'Fighting on the Stairs'. After a short break, we're back and thrilled to share the stunning narrative of our engagement. From surprising romantic gestures to hilarious attempts to keep it a secret, we delve deep into our personal world as we reveal the details of our heartwarming love story.

We believe in bringing a realistic perspective to relationships, discussing open communication about engagement and marriage before surprise proposals. Our episode encompasses a captivating mix of love, romance, and comedy as we narrate the thrilling hot air balloon proposal amidst the breathtaking Swiss landscapes. We also explore societal pressure and societal norms attached to proposals and weddings, always keeping our focus on our bond and commitment rather than materialistic aspects.

Join us in our journey of love and commitment, through countless discussions, surprises, and shared experiences leading up to our life-changing engagement. Be a part of our extraordinary love narrative in 'Fighting on the Stairs'.

Episode 14: Empathy

In episode 14 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina talk about empathy and what it means to be empathetic to someone and what it doesn't mean in relation to themselves 

Episode 13: Sexual Initiation

In episode 13 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina talk about sexual initiation. Who and how they initiate sex or sexual activity. Also learning Each others love language and sexual banking.

Episode 12: Toxic Positivity

In episode 12 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina talk about Toxic Positivity and how this type of attitude, advice mental practice  works.

Episode 11: Parental Guilt

In episode 11 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina Talk about Parental Guilt and there experience of this subject.

Episode 10: Family Responsibility

In episode 10 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina talk about Family Responsibility and the expectations and stereotypes of  being a parent. What are the typical roles of said parent in a family and how do you deal with them.

Episode 9: Love Question Part3

In episode 9 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina finish the 36 questions to get to know someone and make 2
people fall in love with each other. 

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Episode 8: Love Question Part 2

In episode 8 of "Fighting on the Stairs" Tony and Nina continue the 36 questions to get to know someone and make 2
people fall in love with each other. 

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